The unrealisticly high expectations people have of each other might be because so much of their attitude is shaped by the picture perfect world(s) of social media. (The Kardashians have a mansion, why can't I?) Social Media and dating apps are as good a way to meet people as any, but once you've met, you're either attracted (and attractive) or not. It's almost as if many people don't know any other way to meet people..........